How do you handle a situation like mines baby mama drama?

Wow, what a bunch of confusing garble you just shared. It was hard to figure out what you were trying to say, like you bring up "he" without saying who "he" is. You made your choice to be with this woman who is obviously "playing you", and her ex-husband is not responsible for trying to discourage her communications with him. Too bad about who picks up your girlfriend's daughter...you can't change it, even though you want to change it. You already have five kids of your own, and you made those choices too, so you need to "man up" and deal with the costs of your large family.